DATY stands for "dining at the Y" β oral sex performed on a woman. The Y is a shape joke, and the phrase is old enough to have outlived whoever coined it. What makes DATY unusual in this vocabulary is the direction of travel: nearly every other acronym on a listing describes something the provider does, while this one describes something the client does.
Why that distinction matters
Because it changes who is agreeing to what. Most services on a profile are offered. DATY is accepted. A provider listing it is agreeing to receive something from a stranger, which is a different calculation entirely and one that plenty of people decline for reasons that have nothing to do with prudishness.
The usual reasons are practical. Receiving oral requires a degree of physical relaxation that does not switch on by appointment. It also carries its own transmission risk in the direction of the provider. And unlike most listed services, a bad experience of it is unpleasant in a way that cannot be shortened by professionalism. Providers who offer it have usually decided they are comfortable with all three considerations; those who do not have decided otherwise, and that is the end of the matter.
In the catalogue this appears under the clinical name: cunnilingus.
Related acronyms
| Term | Meaning |
|---|
| DATY | Oral performed on a woman |
| DATO | The anal equivalent β much rarer, usually a fetish-specific listing |
| DFK | Deep French kissing β frequently listed alongside, negotiated the same way |
| 69 | Mutual oral; listed separately again |
None of these implies another. A provider offering DFK has said nothing about DATY, and vice versa. If you have read the other pages in this glossary that pattern will be familiar by now, because it is the single rule that governs the whole vocabulary.
Reading it on a profile
DATY appears less frequently than the oral acronyms pointed the other direction, and its absence is not an oversight. If it is not listed, treat it as a no. If it is listed, you still do not need to raise it as a separate topic β confirming your booking in the ordinary way is enough.
One thing worth saying plainly: this is a service where the client's own preparation matters more than in most. Showering before the appointment is basic courtesy for any booking, and providers notice. It is not an unreasonable expectation and it costs you ten minutes.
Frequently asked questions
Is DATY normally included in the standard rate?
Where it is offered at all, usually yes. It is rarely priced as an extra the way CIM often is.
Can I ask a provider who does not list it?
You can ask once, in writing, before the booking. Expect a no. Asking a second time, or raising it in the room, moves you from curious to pushy in one step, and providers talk.
Why is it listed under a different name in the catalogue?
Because filters are indexed by the clinical term rather than the slang, which is why searching the acronym often returns nothing. We are adding the acronyms as search synonyms; until then, the plain-language term works.
Does 69 count as DATY?
They overlap but are listed separately, because one is simultaneous and one is not. Check for both if both matter to you.
Part of the TrystHub escort slang glossary.
Sep 20, 2026
MSOG stands for "multiple shots on goal" β more than one completion within a single booking. Unlike most escort acronyms it describes the shape of a session rather than a specific act, which makes it the one most likely to be misread. Here's what it actually implies about time, rates and expectations.
James Whitaker 4 min Reading time MSOG stands for "multiple shots on goal" β more than one completion within a single booked session. It is borrowed from sports commentary, which tells you roughly how seriously the vocabulary takes itself. Unlike almost every other acronym on a listing, MSOG does not describe an act. It describes the shape of an appointment, and that is why it gets misread more than any other term in the glossary.
What it does not mean
It does not mean unlimited. It does not mean the booked hour extends until you are finished. It does not override the clock, and it does not imply any particular service is included along the way.
What it means, in practice, is that the provider is not treating the first completion as the end of the appointment. If you have booked an hour and there is time remaining, the session continues. If the hour is up, the hour is up.
That distinction is worth sitting with, because the gap between "multiple" and "unlimited" is where most disappointment lives. Someone who books thirty minutes and expects MSOG has misunderstood the arithmetic rather than the acronym.
Time is the real variable
| Booking length | Realistic expectation |
|---|
| Half hour (HHR) | MSOG is rarely offered or realistic |
| One hour | Possible where listed; still bounded by the clock |
| Two hours or more | Where MSOG genuinely comes into its own |
| Overnight | Usually assumed rather than listed |
If MSOG matters to you, the effective move is to book longer rather than to negotiate harder. Multi-hour bookings are also usually discounted per hour, so the arithmetic often works in your favour anyway.
How it is priced
Three patterns are common. Some providers include it in the standard rate and say so. Some price it as an extra. Some do not list it at all, which should be read as a no rather than as a blank to be filled in.
Whichever applies, it will be settled before you meet or it will not be settled at all. Raising money mid-session is the surest way to spoil a booking, and it reads as an attempt to renegotiate from a position the provider cannot easily walk away from β which is exactly how it will be received. Our guide to US escort rates covers how pricing normally works.
Related terms you will see nearby
- HHR / HH β half-hour booking. Shortest standard option, and the one least compatible with MSOG.
- FS β full service.
- Multi-hour β two hours or more, typically at a reduced hourly rate.
- Overnight β priced entirely separately and usually requiring established screening.
Frequently asked questions
Does MSOG mean unlimited within the hour?
No. It means more than one is possible within the time booked. The clock still governs.
Is it usually an extra charge?
It varies. Where there is a charge it will be stated on the profile. Where nothing is stated, ask before booking rather than after arriving.
Can I ask for MSOG on a half-hour booking?
You can, and you will mostly be told that the maths does not work. A half hour is a half hour, and it is not a lot of it.
Why do some providers not list it at all?
Because a session is physically demanding work and pacing it is part of doing the job well over a full week. Not listing MSOG is a workload decision, not a slight.
Part of the TrystHub escort slang glossary.
